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Marlaina Mathisen | Episode 1124
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Your approach seems audacious, thinking bigger and going bigger. I wanted to ask you a few questions so I could learn to better myself and to follow a little bit down that road that you have been on. So first off, I’m curious, how do you move forward when fear is trying to hold you back?
That’s such a good question and thank you for saying that, that means a lot to me. I haven’t always felt audacious or bold. And I think that one of the biggest things I could ever say about fear is that when you have courage, courage could not exist without fear. So if you want to be courageous you must be afraid and in that I think you can kind of find gratitude for being afraid. Because being courageous doesn’t mean you are going to do it fearlessly. It means that you are doing it through being scared.
What does that do mean for a comfort zone? Living in a comfort zone versus stepping out of a comfort zone?
I think that you really can know if you could give one percent more most of the time. But you often can lie to yourself. And I am just saying this from personal experience. I think that’s one thing pottery has taught me is that I can try again to make a larger pot for example, and it has adapted me to failure which translates to all of life.
What is the difference between blind faith and bold planning?
I am not going to say that I know for sure. I am still always a student and I am always learning. A quite that has really stuck with me on that specifically is that you can have faith or you can have fear and both require you to believe in something that you can’t see. So which one is going to lift you up? Which one is going to give you the most air underneath your feet? Which one is going to help you attack this challenge more? It’s going to be faith.
How important is taking the time to plan and learn?
I love this question because I am have been talking a lot about this quote to people, You can’t learn to swim by reading about water. And that is just like talking about the importance of action and not getting stuck in the planning phase or stuck in the reading phase. Which is so important but at the end of the day if I don’t take any steps myself I won’t have anything to pivot from. The more effort the more valuable the outcome is to you.
Is part of being audacious also part of fighting against the status quo?
Yikes. I don’t know. Maybe. I think there’s a part of me that loves being challenged and having to prove myself. Like when I was a little girl people were like, She can’t do that, she’s a little girl. And now sometimes people are like, She can’t do that she’s a girl. And I’m, Oh yeah, I love that you said that cuz now I am going to go a hundred times harder.
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